Guess what…
Every part of this journey will prove more educational than the last.
Every part of this journey, even if you don’t belive me, is for your good in the long run.
Every thing you’ve endured and witnessed will serve as vitamin for your future.
All the struggle of trying to make everything make sense,
All the pain of accepting when it doesn’t,
All the anger of not being able to quicly “accept the things you can’t change”,
and Even the confused feelings you get when you’re a little relieved the test was negative, so that you can have this much-needed glass of wine just to recenter yourself,
Yes, Every part…is going to make sense at some point.
And do you know why?
Because You will be a mom, if that’s what you truly want to be.
Even if you never get pregnant.
Even if your husband’s sperm never meets your egg.
Even if you have to travel hundreds of miles to pick your baby up from the most expensive daycare you’ll ever pay,
Even if you never feel a kick underneath your belly skin,
Fate can STILL decide,
That you are good enough to wipe a nose or two,
That your lullabies are just as sweet as the mother of four who lives down the hall.
That you can cheer just as loud at any little league parent
That your magic kisses can heal twice as many boo-boo’s than you think.
And do you know what?
For that little person,who will grow into that amazing adult, who will look down from that podium/stage accepting that diploma/award/certificate, it won’t MATTER how you came to be their mom.
All that will matter is that you ARE.
And THAT is when it will all make perfect sense.
So don’t cry today.
It’s unnecessary, I promise.
