When You Really Get Tired
What do you do when the person holding you back, is YOU?
Read moreIt’s been so long since I’ve had a plan, that I’m not even sure how to execute one anymore. LOL I believe I’ve come to an actual decision about where to go from here. My mind was jumbled and it was leading me down that dark alleyway we call depression. Anyone who has stepped foot into the IF arena knows that depression is counterproductive to say the least. In trying [...]
Read moreAs usual, I'm looking at something that has nothing to do with infertility when something drives itself home. This time, it was Tyler Perry's newest play "Madea's Big Happy Family".
Read moreWarning: I'm going to use the word HATE, a lot in this post. I HATE being told what to do. I hate seeing weight in the top list of things that cause infertility. I hate that it is something I cannot seem to get a handle on.
Read moreFirst post of the year. Time out for bullshit, Eggshells. About ten months ago, a doctor told me to lose 30 lbs and THEN she would renew my Clomid prescription. At this point in the journey, I had already taken a round of Clomid about six months before that, and a round of Metformin a couple months before that, none of which (obviously), had worked. The first doctor, who had [...]
Read moreI just don’t trust anything that bleeds for five days and doesn’t die. - Mr. Garrison - South Park Bigger Longer and Uncut For me personally, this entire situation sometimes really just pisses me off. I could write a frilly note on how it is frustrating, but more women go through it than myself and that I should just pray and keep moving because God always has a plan. But [...]
Read moreSo, I’ve always been a big girl. Not necessarily HUGE, but I damn sure wasn’t a cheerleader. Again, this is something that isn’t altogether unheard of in the black community. Our community glorifies big butts and smiles. We talk all the time about down home cooking and grandmama recipes and we proclaim skinny bitches to be evil so that we can feel good about ourselves in our Ashley Stewart/Lane Bryant [...]
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